[Is
a woman socially empowered thing? All modern, social and financial, parameters
say so. However, she, the woman in the poem, doesn’t know that she is
empowered. What a heck! Like a blind soul not knowing anything about light, she
has no idea as to what is empowerment. When told that she is a really an
empowered creature, she sulks, thinking for a moment that even such an
empowerment can’t save her conjugal bliss, which, like a greased pig, can never
be caught.]
My
dear, darling husband!
Can
you forgive me that I did not run
to
welcome you as you came in the door?
Forgive
I did not sew your buttons on
and
left a mess strewn on the kitchen floor?
A
woman’s life is never fully done
with
conjugal bliss forever gone.
The
things I did I should have left undone
the
things I lost that I could not restore;
Will
you forgive I wasn’t any fun?
Will
you forgive I couldn’t give you more?
A
woman’s life is never fully done
with
conjugal bliss forever gone.
I
never finished what I had begun,
I
could not keep the promises I swore,
So
we fought battles neither of us won
and
I said ‘Sorry!’ and you banged the door.
A
woman’s life is never fully done
with
conjugal bliss forever gone.
But
in the empty space now you are gone
I
find the time I didn’t have before.
I
lock the house and walk out to the sun
where
sea beats upon a wider shore
and
a woman’s life is never fully done
with
conjugal bliss forever gone.
[This
poem by Dorothy Nimmo has all time relevance; it fits into every beleaguered
woman who wants to retain her conjugal bliss even at the cost of her dignity
and self-esteem. International Women’s Day is all set to be celebrated on March
8. However, I’m a bit fast thinking all day is women’s day. So, here goes my
advance greetings to all women who feel they are empowered and also to those
who dream of getting empowered sooner than later. Those poor lots have been
dreaming such a dream for decades and decades with no light in sight]
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Great tribute!
ReplyDeleteVery well said, Most the woman want just peace and harmony in their homes even if it comes at the cost of their self respect. Empowerment at the cost of broken house, they will never accept and this is a hard reality.
ReplyDeleteSacrifice is synonymous with women.Let her not lose it at any cost. She only waits for the day when recognition,respect and care is given to her by her man first.Others will follow in due course.
ReplyDeletegreat
ReplyDeleteThis is a masterpiece ...a must read for all.
ReplyDeleteA nice post exhibiting the reality of womanhood.
ReplyDeleteAnd ofcourse thankyou for your woman's day greetings
Avery nice post depicting how a woman's self respect is always under question.
ReplyDeletethankyou for your women's day greetings.
truly a right step forward.
ReplyDelete:)
Thanks to all for your visit and comments.
ReplyDeleteWow...that's a wonderful poem, Eashwar. Very powerful piece! Happy Women's day to everyone here!!:)
ReplyDeleteThank you.
This poem resonates still. Thanks for sharing it!
ReplyDeleteDamyanti
Co-host, A to Z Challenge 2013
Very nice and thouht provoking post
ReplyDeleteyour are write everyday is a women's day,nice poem thanks for sharing
ReplyDeleteWow, that is one impressive poem!
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for sharing it with us, and
my wishes to everyone here on the occasion of Women's Day!
Regards,
Bhavya
http://ursilence.blogspot.in/
Thanks Bhav.Zz for your nice views.
ReplyDeleteThanks cifar shayar
ReplyDeleteThanks Pradip
ReplyDeleteDamyanti, thanks a lot.
ReplyDeleteThe interwoven pathos in the poem still lingers in my mind. Thanks Panchali.
ReplyDeleteVery interesting post.
ReplyDeleteThanks Rajesh
ReplyDeleteFew good men are all we need to change this thinking..
ReplyDeletehope it raises some questions in every man's mind.
very thought provoking!
ReplyDeleteThanks the little princess
ReplyDeleteThanks asteria. Happy if this post make a spark in those men-concerned.
ReplyDeleteTruly powerful post. The poem speaks volume!
ReplyDeleteGlad I read it.
Thanks Saru
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing this wonderful poem, Sir. This poem leaves an impact on the reader in more ways than one.
ReplyDeleteThanks Vaishali
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